The Handbook / SAL
Grace, justice, heaven and hell.
The Bible never pits God's love against his justice. A God who shrugged at cruelty, abuse and injustice would not be loving. Hell is God's final judgment on evil and, in a real sense, his granting of what people have chosen: life apart from him, the source of all good. Jesus spoke of judgment more than anyone, yet he also went to the cross so that no one has to face it. God does not want anyone to perish, and the way out has been opened at his own cost.
Christians agree on three things. Salvation is only through Jesus Christ. No one is judged for what they could not know, because God judges by the light each person has. And God is perfectly just and more loving than we are. How God deals with those who never heard is debated among faithful Christians. But Scripture's answer to anyone asking the question is clear: you have heard, so the question that matters most for you is how you will respond.
Every view about religion, including 'all paths lead to God', claims that views contradicting it are wrong, so the question is not whether we make exclusive claims but which claim is true. Christianity's claim didn't come from Christians; it came from Jesus. And it's the opposite of arrogance. Christianity says no one, including Christians, can reach God by their own goodness. Jesus is the only way because he is God coming to us, not us climbing to him.
Real forgiveness is never free; someone always absorbs the cost of the wrong. When we forgive, we bear the loss ourselves instead of making the offender pay. On the cross God did exactly that, on a cosmic scale. Jesus is not a third party punished by an angry Father; he is God himself, freely bearing the cost of our sin. In this way God can forgive without pretending evil doesn't matter. He is 'just and the justifier' of those who trust Jesus (Romans 3:26).
Yes, Christianity really does teach that anyone who truly repents and trusts Christ can be forgiven, even at the end of a terrible life. That is not because evil doesn't matter, but because Jesus paid its full cost on the cross. No one is let off: every sin is either paid for by Christ or answered for by the sinner. And real repentance isn't a magic formula; it is a change of heart that turns from evil. Grace offends us partly because it means our own goodness can't save us either.